CVID affects my life in every way.

Although I have had Common Variable Immune Deficiency (a Primary Immunodeficiency) since birth, I wasn’t diagnosed with CVID until November 2017. Shortly thereafter, I started IVIG treatments every month. My 13-year-old son, Jackson, was diagnosed with CVID in December 2017 and my 9-year-old son, Jace, received a diagnosis of IgG Subclass Deficiency shortly thereafter.

As you can imagine, these three diagnoses significantly changed my life.

*WARNING: To those people who hate complaining and whining to any extent…take caution in reading this post.

10 Ways CVID Affects My Life Every Day

1. I never know when I wake up if I can attend the appointments or events I have scheduled that day.

If I’m having a “low” day, it might mean I can’t get out of bed except to go to the bathroom. It also might mean I feel aches and pains in my joints all over my body and/or running a fever. I could be full-blown sick and/or extremely fatigued because I did too much the prior day.

I could also be experiencing pelvic pain from Interstitial Cystitis and/or full-body pain from Fibromyalgia. My IVIG treatments and many other medicines also cause severe side effects…and the list goes on…and on.

On any particular day, I might be experiencing just one or even several of these CVID-caused symptoms.

2. I lost some friends.

I became a “flaker”. I often have to cancel outings and time with friends because I am sick or not feeling well. After a while, some friends just stop asking. The good ones though, they stick around!

3. I left my job of 10 years last year and can’t work.

Like I mentioned above, I wake up never knowing if I will be able to function that day. Due to the body damage and pain CVID has caused, I can’t sit for long, stand for long, walk for long, type for long, or do anything for the length of time it would take to complete any decent amount of work.

I type my blog posts in just a few minutes at a time and often with help from family “scribes” I’ve coerced into helping me!

I depend on a LOT of other medications to make it through my day and they have side effects like brain fog, constipation, diarrhea, sleepiness, dizziness, nausea, dry mouth and eyes, anxiety, depression…and the list goes on…and on.

4. I miss important family events and milestones.

My niece graduated from college this year and my family celebrated her success! Unfortunately, I couldn’t be there because I had my IVIG infusion earlier that day and was experiencing side effects. 

5. Our financial situation is not what it once was.

Sure, my husband and I have hit some rough patches like every other couple out there but with the progressive and then severe onset of my CVID I could no longer manage our finances closely as I once did. It was my job since we had gotten married because I was simply better at it. (He’s better at cooking!) CVID has caused some major financial boo-boos for us because it’s hard to manage your finances when all you can manage is lying in bed in a dark room most of the time.

6. My life is scheduled around the IVIG infusions I get every three weeks.

The most important appointments on my calendar are my IVIG infusions every three weeks because they keep me from getting sick and keep me alive! Those are scheduled first, every three weeks, no matter what else is on my family’s calendar for that day. If there is something, I miss it to receive my four to five hour infusion. They are accompanied and followed by side-effects for the rest of that day and the next.

7. I gained weight.

I am on several medications to help manage my CVID and symptoms. Due to this, I’ve gained an unhealthy amount of weight in a short period of time. In about six months I’ve gone from about 135 lbs (I’m 5’8″ tall and small framed so 140 lbs is usually the weight at which I feel best) to 175 lbs. Talk about a blow to my self-esteem which has taken a fair share of beatings lately due to CVID. I bought some new clothes which weren’t in the budget and I feel incredibly uncomfortable in them anyway.

8. My life goals changed dramatically.

I now know because of CVID why I was more sick as a child, had less energy than the other kids, and always seemed to have to push myself to exhaustion to succeed. I also now know that because of CVID, some of the goals for my life I once had are no longer realistic.

I know quotes on Pinterest encourage those with chronic illness to never stop reaching for your dreams, but let’s get real here, my dreams have to change. I can no longer bring home the bacon, fry it up, and be the super-mom I felt I once was. I am too sick. So, I have to prioritize and being the best mom I can be with CVID wins.

9. I learned a new normal.

Have you ever heard of the Spoon Theory? If not, read the Spoon Theory so you can better manage your energy and explain your illness to your loved ones. For me, I have a Type A brain in a CVID body! My body can not keep up anymore so I have to count the spoons I’m given everyday and try to use them wisely.

10. My relationship with my husband and children suffered.

Let’s face it. Physically, as you’ve read above, I am limited by CVID. Mentally, I am inside my own head–a lot!

I am constantly thinking of and researching ways I can improve my energy and my overall health. I am sorting through all of the changes going on in my life in my mind and trying to learn to cope with these in a healthy way. I use up a lot of mental and physical energy which is detrimental to my relationships with my family.

It’s hard for me to just kick back and have fun because of anxiety over my CVID, anxiety over my children having Primary Immunodeficiencies too, anxiety over getting the everyday stuff of life done…and so on and on and on.

That’s it. I’ve whined enough, and I hate whiners!

Stay strong my Zebra friends.


Though DIVA as she may be, her path to success was not easy and is always evolving. Go here to read about her journey in “Becoming the CVIDiva.” If you want to send Susan Alynne a quick message, then visit her contact page here.